"Messages Project" Connects Ex-Offenders With Families
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Updated: 3:17 PM Dec 14, 2009
"Messages Project" Connects Ex-Offenders With Families
The Valley
This Christmas, one organization is bridging the gap between families in the Valley and their loved ones who may not be able to join them for the holidays.
Posted: 6:10 PM Dec 13, 2009
Reporter: McKinsey Harris
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This Christmas, one organization is bridging the gap between families in the Valley and their loved ones who may not be able to join them for the holidays.

The Messages Project has helped more than 4,000 inmates and ex-offenders send a video message to their family. While it may be a little DVD, it carries a heartfelt message.

Now that the project director was recognized as a "2008 CNN Hero," that number will continue to grow.

Project Director Carolyn LeCroy says, after being incarcerated herself, she knows the importance of the family bond, which is why she created this program.

"Many parents don't get visits. Never got visits, and still don't. And this is a way for them to connect with their families," says LeCroy.

She says it's important for inmates to express their love for their families.

"One of the most important things that we see and hear is an apology to the family. Asking and taking responsibility for what they've done. And for many, many of them it is the first time that they've taken responsibility for what they've done," says LeCroy.

Brian Hess, who has three kids and a fourth on the way, has been at the Gemeinschaft Home for nearly two months.

At first, he was hesitant to participate in the Messages Project, but now he's glad he did.

"Because there's some people, including myself, that might not get to see their family. They don't get to see them a whole lot. And you can't hide from the camera, so they see you send your wishes. So I guess it means a bit more than a phone call or something," says Hess.

Though LeCroy was recognized by CNN for her work, she says it isn't about her. It's about helping the children of inmates and ex-offenders.

"But what it's done is it's brought attention, nationally and internationally, to the circumstances, to the plight of these children, and what they go through," says LeCroy.

LeCroy says the families have no idea they'll receive a DVD message. She says she's heard back from families in the past that the children often play them again and again, to keep that connection with their parent.

The Messages Project started in Virginia, but it's expanding to other states.


Latest Comments

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Tennessee on Oct 14, 2010 at 12:27 PM

There are many times that we overlook how luucky some of us are who have never been incarcerated. The funny thing is the inmate got caught and some of us out here just haven't. There are even times when individuals are falsely accused and of no fault of their own are convicted of a crime they did not commit but it is hard to be understanding when you really have no compassion for people in these given circumstances. I do not agree with inmated who have hurt their children in some way being in contact with them but their are some inmates who just made a mistake we have all been here at some point and we want forgiveness. SInce I am not perfect I do not cast stones. I never know what may happen in my life so I careful not to judge this is a great program.
Posted by: Anonymous Location: VA on Jan 8, 2010 at 09:09 AM

I also think we often overlook the fact that the children are sometimes the victims of their parents' crime which lead to their incarceration. It's not always beneficial to the children to be in contact with their incarcerated parent.
Posted by: Anonymous Location: Harrisonburg on Dec 14, 2009 at 09:14 AM

I have mixed feelings about this. Shouldn't these people have thought about their families before they commited a crime? Being in jail away from their family is part of the punishment for what they've done. I do feel sorry for the children that have to pay for their parent's choices. If you care at all for your children, you'd be trying to set a good example for them and stay out of trouble. It amazes me how people all of the sudden find God and think about family once they're locked up.
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